At 18 weeks pregnant and 5 weeks away from becoming a mother, I was ready to have a baby girl. When my husband and I found out that we were expecting again, I was excited but also anxious. I hadn’t had a period in ten months, and I knew that I’d be having to get a test done at my doctor’s office. It would be a big deal to go ahead and take my regular regular doctor’s appointment.
But I was also pregnant with my second child and I had all this anxiety. With a new baby, you have to be very careful with your body. With my first child I didnt feel a thing. But this time, I was so nervous that I was ready to pee my pants. I had to call my doc, and he agreed to take my blood test.
The first thing the doctor said was that the first blood sample he took was negative, and that I was now pregnant with my second baby. He also assured me that he would be able to perform a test on me in a day or two. Within an hour of the first call, I had sent my second blood sample to the lab and was waiting anxiously for the results.
I had to pee so much. I was so anxious that I was shaking and could feel my bladder contract. I was only pregnant for about four more weeks, but I was terrified I would never be able to stop. But after my doctor’s initial diagnosis, he seemed to be absolutely fine with me having another baby, and also told me that it’s normal to feel nervous about having a baby in the first place.
One of the reasons I’m getting so many messages from people about gender dysphoria is that we’re so far out in the realm of science that there’s still so much we don’t understand. Still, we all have to make some guesses, and the fact that so many people are doing it is a sign that this is something worth discussing.
I’m having these thoughts every day, but I don’t know how to talk about them because I just don’t know what it’s like to be a woman. I still have these “inner thoughts” that I think that the baby’s gender will be a factor in, but I don’t know how to talk about it. Im going to be having a baby in September, and I’m very excited about that.
That being said, I am sure that there are some parents who are having these thoughts. And some who aren’t. I don’t know. I have a feeling it’s just a matter of not knowing how to talk about it.
I don’t know what your inner thoughts are, but I can guarantee you that your child is going to get plenty of gender-related attention, both inside and out. From the moment you give birth, there will be a lot of questions and comments about your gender, and the gender of your child.
And yes, it’s not just about the gender of your child’s gender, but also about your own. It’s really important to keep the gender of your child’s gender in mind, because even if they are gender neutral, they will have a different personality than you do in the future. That doesn’t mean you have to make it gender specific or special, but it’s best to consider who your child is going to become in the future and what your child’s gender will be like.
So, to summarize, gender is the sex your child will inherit. And if you are going to be a girl or a boy, you will inherit a different sex, but you will also inherit a different personality. So if your child is going to be a boy, then you will be a girl, and vice versa.